Oh my goodness, Ben found this article about Cary in National Geographic. I just had to laugh because this is what my front yard looks like 4 days out of the week. Tons of kids outside, parents just hanging out talking etc.  Somedays I tell Ben our house looks like a cross of a preschool and frat house.. .. b/c there is a bucket of beer in the front yard and tons of kids and kids toys.   Real life.